Happiness is our natural state – the human default if you like. Just look at the children around you; unaffected by learned cynicism, prejudice and judgement, they are free to enjoy life and all that their world has to offer them. Children aren’t bound so tightly by societal norms, niceties and routines; they are free, to an extent, to be who they are and express themselves as such. When you consider how life begins, it’s such a monumental shame that we as society, strip our children of their default state; their happiness, by squeezing those happy little individuals into clearly labelled boxes and packing them off for a life built on adhering to ‘the norm’.
It’s a difficult cycle to break! We need society and modern life with its rules,regulations, niceties and comfort, of course, but we can relish in snippets of childhood wonder and punctuate our lives – however normal – with those things that make us most happy. Those things that bring us back – even if just for a moment – to our default state. Happiness.
1. Roses are red
Its more than a week after Valentines Day and the beautiful deep red roses which arrived, husband-in-tow, the evening before the 14th are still flourishing in their cream-enamel jug. Flowers maketh a happy human.
2. Catch up with a close one
My beautiful friend Naomi came to visit this weekend all the way from
sunny ‘saaf’ London. Being a busy mum and teacher, 24 hours of high-quality adult company and help keeping the small ones entertained, was utter bliss. We get so caught up with the drudgery of everyday life – especially if family and friends are far away, so visits like these are the perfect antidote to sadness.
3. Blogging like a pro…almost!
The big site migration! I feel like a wildlife trekker following migrating birds as they navigate their way across hemispheres in search of warmer climes. Except it’s not the natural world but the virtual one, that has had me on the edge of my seat this week. Yes, I have finally taken the plunge and in addition to my new domain name, I have now moved away from the wordpress.com platform and am officially self-hosted at Godaddy! (Yay!) I must say, it wasn’t without its hair-pulling moments and flashes of gritted teeth, but lots of tea, a Twitter plea, plenty of phone calls and two square eyes later – I have just about finished rebuilding my site. I’m sure it’s not without it’s hiccups and I’m still updating/adding my widgets – please let me know if you come across any errors when viewing the blog!
#reasonsforbeinghappy from across the blogosphere!
@007nai: “I’m happy that despite having an exam next week, I know exactly what to do to relax – great friends like you and the gym!
@amyloves_: “For some quiet time on my own so I can enjoy long meditation
Indulge in your #reasons this week and find that default setting. Find your happy.